A new partner, a stranger, many dilemmas, what to do, what not to do, what to say, how to behave, what would you like your partner, what they want to hear, what would stop to take the sound of the second two, etc..
IF YOU WANT TO BE LOVED, LOVE
BY SOCRATE
A new partner, a stranger, many dilemmas, what to do, what not to do, what to say, how to behave, what would you like your partner, what they want to hear, what would stop to take the sound of the second two, etc..
2012-02-11 05:54:28
By whom we feel attracted to, or what? Love is blind? Love is addiction? What was wrong? What is limit to love? Some very interesting questions that really deserves a more ample. I tried the following to emphasize some lessons learned over time about love, romance, or relationships.
Attraction rule. When, by whom and why we feel attracted?
The first thing I learned. Physical attraction is important. The first thing we look when we try to go out on a date. So to find out if the person really worth only physical attraction is what will make us get out of that meeting. If the person looks good and attracts us, we will give a chance and try to see if worth more or not.
First is physical attraction. Is what we hold the beginning. Yes, indeed, all we want partners as smart and funny, courageous and sensitive all at the same time, of course. But until we can find them genes of genius and knowledge, we follow as shown. We meet with a potential partner, if and only if it managed to attract us physically.
Then, if there is a charismatic and mysterious allure, the better. We will be more attracted to something like a magnet. If there´s hard to get, the more so. Only we like challenges.
After the first 15 minutes we managed to find and if that or something that shows affinities, whether or not we have something in common. It is possible to see that type of clever, but annoying, difficult to obtain or, conversely shallow and zany on top of boring.
In conclusion, physical appearance plays an important role, both at first, but all within a relationship.
As a further comment, we feel attracted to those with a pleasant appearance and we and angry at the same time. That is the human mind: if it´s too simple, no interest.
Really matter how you look.
A lesson should be learned first of all women.
Many failed relationships over time. Most men said they do not feel as attracted to their partner that early relationship. And this happened after they moved.
If we think well, we find that things are not so and. Many women, once they managed to congeal a serious relationship, get married, or just move along, they began to stop watching the rules of seduction. Unfortunately they began to forget one of the most important: how to stay attractive. A large shirt, tracksuit pants, nepensate eyebrows, no makeup, no Waxing, perming and more things like this is completely unattractive to a man.
Sorry hundreds of women will be found here, but please: stop. You look to your partner, even matter. Can not lose his feelings for you, but it definitely will lose something of attraction.
Love is blind?
Of course. Love is blind. Thank God no reason! And because of this, from the moment we fall in love, within us will bring an ongoing war between love and reason. Often your mind will not agree with what you say or do heart.
Most times we only crap. But better to make you feel like crap, although it may in the future we realize that we have acted wrong, than not do not, and live the fantasy of a past that could be otherwise.
So, yes. Love is very blind. But so what? Better to be loved, to be wrong, something to be learned from the mistakes made, than not have loved at all.
If you have to ask, you can not afford.
What does that also mean that? What I want to emphasize is that you should ask your partner to do something that would have to do on their own (to open a door to let you pass first, to give you a flower, to tell he loves you, etc.), means that no price worth paying to maintain this relationship in the future. Is a price too high and you will definitely suffer.
There are things that keep the person´s character and a feeling existing things must be provided and not required.
Vs. bad guy. good boy? Bad boy, always.
Bad guy: arrogant, pompous, a bit of ax, too direct, slightly raspy, seductive, mysterious and charismatic.
Best boy: cute, too nice, smart (or not), not drink, smoke, do not watch certain movies, etc.. In short: boring, boring and ladies, how boring.
Why always women more, if we choose, will choose the type of man "bad boy"? This type of man manages to awaken something in us makes us feel alive, important, beautiful, yet manages to make us feel safe, protected.
Of course in most of cases it is possible that with such a man to be approx. 90% of the time in danger, but so what? At least we will experience intense, no?
Just kidding, I have not found a logical and rational explanation, but in about 90% of cases, women will prefer the bad boy type first, and will fail if it was not until then will head to the good boy.
If anyone ever understand the female mind, congratulate him wholeheartedly.
2012-02-11 05:48:22
She dreams of being adored and consolations are her daily fare. Purrs like most spoiled cat wants attention all the lights on it. When light is no longer diminishes or alinturile that were once the setting changes. Among these elements originated desire to deceive. The temptation exists in every woman´s life willing feelings exist among us and managing feelings, the power to commit a mistake not feel guilty. Any small part of her body lock. Nobody knows the true nature of her radiant smile and does not want to know. The fact that a promise made to stumble fidelity to retaliate. Whatever love there and no matter how happy you can read the radiant image of a woman, need new is inevitable.
We are sure that the women themselves, and not to generalize, some women, those brave who know that the blood must know and passion elsewhere. Indifidelitatea is excusable, but can not perdonabila reasons there are many, many encouraging. On the question of why it is difficult or impossible to answer, can only suspect. Maybe the next it looks new, brighter smile is perhaps more appealing than the old, perhaps as soon spotted lips look more attractive. Any thought ideas help build a new, more appealing, more to sin.
The idea comes easily, implement the same ease, falling into the arms of a guilty pleasure is a feeling that you realize that wrong, but sweet sin erase guilt for a few moments. The true test of consciousness comes after, if pressed on the shoulders of women´s guilt, sadness if one breaks down, or if, like any sin brings a smile lived deeply narcissistic.
The possibilities are many, and from experience I know that temptation and infidelity violates every principle you down if you´re open to as little of flirting with the idea of playing dangerous.
... True love is respect ... if does not exist ... there is no love.